It is so easy to get caught up in our kids and hectic lives. Going on dates with your husband may seem like another chore on your “to do” list, but finding time for dates is one of the best investments you can make in your marriage.
Not only is it important to spend one-on-one time with him, but going out is good for you and your sanity.
I know money is tight, but much like investing in your 401K, this is your future we are talking about. So here are some cheap date ideas to make sure you have no excuses.
- Check out your local paper for free concerts, movies in the park, etc.
- Find a restaurant that has early bird specials, coupons, and/or BYOB.
- Do something outdoorsy, like going for a walk or taking a hike. Bring a picnic dinner, comfy blanket, wine and some strawberries.
- Check out your local city site for free activities, like gallery nights, museums, etc.
- Dates don’t have to be at night. Take advantage of some daytime discounts by going to a matinee movie or bowling.
Ok, so one of these sounds fun and affordable, but you say you can’t afford to pay a babysitter? Well, then don’t. Ask a family member or good friend. Start a babysitting co-op or swap with a neighbor. You take their kids once a month while they go out, and then they’ll do the same for you.
Once upon a time, it was just you and your husband. And when your kids are grown up, it’ll be just the two of you again. Keeping that spark alive is one of the best gifts you can give to yourself, to each other, and to your kids.
